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12 Best Sex Toys for Couples


The 12 Best Sex Toys for Couples are toys and products they add fun to your sex life, and they let you explore what feels good and experiment with new types of sensation. There’s a lot of sex toy myths out there. Many people feel that they will be replaced if they introduce sex toys into the bedroom. They also feel ... Read More »

The Ultimate Guide to Vaginismus-Definition, Causes and Treatment

The Ultimate Guide to Vaginismus

Most people with vulvas will experience painful sex (dyspareunia) and wonder why sex hurts at some point. For many, this is a one-time or occasional experience. Maybe you didn’t spend enough time warming up with foreplay? Perhaps you tried a new position that really didn’t work, or something similar. However, for some people, painful sex is a regular occurrence and has a ... Read More »

Top 5 Best Cock Rings for Men

Top 5 Best Penis Cock Rings

Top 5 Best Penis Rings Penis rings, male vibrators and cock rings – all these sex toys for men are becoming mainstream fast! Men can use toys too, right? Some of the best male sex toys are penis rings that constrict blood flow to the penis for longer and harder erections. Using penis rings — whether they vibrate or not — gives you different sensations of pleasure. Many men use these toys whether they ... Read More »

Foreplay Tip: Mutual Masturbation for Both Partners


Some people think masturbation is something only single people or those in long-distance relationship do. Some also know masturbating has tons of health benefits. And a few, usually those who’ve dealt with it, know that masturbation is great for managing sex drive differences in a relationship. Regardless, most people still think of masturbation as an exclusively solo activity. In honor ... Read More »

May is Masturbation Month!

May Masturbation Month

May is Masturbation Month and it’s time to celebrate! Masturbation is the sexual stimulation of one’s own genitals or body for pleasure. It is neither unhealthy or bad and can be done alone or with a partner. There are many benefits to masturbation for both men and women. Masturbation can help women…. Overcome personal inhibitions while fulfilling their sexual desires which boosts ... Read More »

8 Best Sex Toys for Menopausal Women

8 Best Sex Toys for Menopausal Women

Menopause is a nasty word for many women. It changes your body, your mind and your sex drive. The change in your hormones from menopause effects how your body reacts sexually. You may not be as easily aroused as you once were and you may be less sensitive to touching or stroking. Due to the lower levels of estrogen, there can be less blood supply to the ... Read More »

Valentine’s Day Sex and Pleasure Statistics


Are you looking forward to Valentine’s Day sex? You are not alone! As you know, Valentine’s Day is about love, romance and finding pleasure with your partner! Did you know twice as many people are doing some sort of sexual play on Valentine’s Day – and for 30% longer!? The free We-Connect™ by We-Vibe sees their number of uses more than double, and the average session ... Read More »

Best New Sex Toys of 2016


updated 10/17/16 Welcome to 2016! Exciting things are happen in sex tech and sex toys in 2016. From touchable videos that teach you about pleasure to products that can be powered by the beating of a heart (whether it’s your own or your partners’) to a reading app and sex toy synchronized via Bluetooth, innovation is at the forefront of all things sex ... Read More »

3 Tips to Keep the Spark Alive During the Holidays

3 tips to keep the spark alive during the holidays

As the temperature drops and the days get shorter, our lives become busier. It doesn’t help that each year, the holiday stuff shows up in stores earlier, reminding us of the chaos to come. Between family, travel, and gift buying, the holidays have the perfect combination of stress factors to strain your sex life and relationship. Many of us take things ... Read More »

Holiday Gift Guide 2015

Holiday Gift Guide 2015

My Secret Luxury’s 2015 Holiday Gift Guide  featuring high quality luxury sex toys & accessories Eva by Dame – If you want a hands-free couples vibrator but don’t want a vibrator that gets in the way during sex, then you should try the Eva. Thanks to its wings, it fits securely into the labia majora so that it vibrates on the clitoris.   Fun Factory Stronic ... Read More »

4 Reasons to Touch and Play with Breasts


  Breasts are wonderful but sometimes overlooked sources of pleasure. Some people orgasm from breast stimulation alone. For others, the breasts are just kind of there and no pleasure comes from playing with them.  (Keep in mind: You are NORMAL either way!) These differences in how people respond to touching and playing with their breasts (or having their breasts played ... Read More »

A Sex Educator’s Guide to Prostate Play

A Sex Educators Guide to Prostate Play

September is both Prostate Health and Prostate Cancer Awareness Month. The prostate has gotten lots of attention in the last decade or so and is slowly being recognized as a pleasure center. At My Secret Luxury, we think there’s no better way to celebrate than with a little exploration and massage! Of course, a little Prostate 101 doesn’t hurt either! Here’s a ... Read More »

How To Talk About Sex With Your Partner

How to talk about sex with your partner

Let’s face it — talking about sex can be awkward. Not only are you uncomfortable to talk to your friends about this subject, but it can be harder to talk about sex with your partner! You worry what they’ll think. Will they laugh? Be disgusted? How do you even bring it up?! How do you talk about sex with your ... Read More »

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