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12 Best Sex Toys for Couples


The 12 Best Sex Toys for Couples are toys and products they add fun to your sex life, and they let you explore what feels good and experiment with new types of sensation.

There’s a lot of sex toy myths out there. Many people feel that they will be replaced if they introduce sex toys into the bedroom. They also feel that something is wrong with them if they bring “those” products into the bedroom. Or, they don’t need those products because they don’t have any issues in the bedroom, so why would they need them? Another sex toy myth is that only “those” types of people use sex toys and adult products.


Let’s debunk each myth.

MYTH #1: I feel replaced when my partner brings a sex toy into the bedroom.

MYTH #2: Something is wrong with me or my partner if you use sex toys and adult products.

MYTH #3: My sex life is great! Why do I need adult toys and products?

Is it perfect? NO! Nothing is perfect.

So, then don’t you want to make it BETTER??

Do you know EVERYTHING there is to know about pleasure? Most people do not!

That’s the primary reason to use adult toys and products: they make sex and pleasure BETTER. They add more fun and variety to sexual play. They help you and your partner discover what feels good — and what does not. Some sex toys can help you explore new sensations that you might have never experienced before.

Who doesn’t want that??

MYTH #4: My partner and I are not wild, so we don’t need “those” types of products.

No matter what kind of sexual play you are into, everyone can use benefit from using sex toys and adult products.


Luxury sex toys and products are not as scary as you think. They are discreet, which means that they don’t look like a sex toy, and therefore, are not intimidating as they used to be.

Personal lubricants make sex and masturbation more enjoyable. Sexual stimulants help the arousal process, especially for women.

Tip: It takes women approximately 10-40 minutes to get aroused.

These products can only HELP you and your intimate moments…not hurt you!

MYTH #5: Only “those” types of people use sex toys.

And what types of people are these? People who enjoy PLEASURE? People who live HAPPIER and HEALTHIER LIVES? There is nothing wrong or shameful about using these products. They will bring you closer to your partner as well as provide more intimate moments and FUN!

Learn the health benefits of orgasms here.

So, here’s our picks for the 12 best sex toys for couples, whether you are beginners or advanced users:

We-Vibe Sync

This luxury couples vibrator is worn by her during sex. It stimulates both the clitoris and G-spot while the penis is inside. The penis can also feel the vibration as well when using the We-Vibe Sync! If you use your smartphone as the remote control, you can control this sex toy for couples from anywhere in the world plus design your own vibration patterns. This premium high-quality sex toy for couples is adjustable for maximum comfort and the best fit!


Fin by Dame Products

Fin Finger Vibrator is a finger vibrator that is discreet and versatile and can be used anywhere for external stimulation (the clitoris, vulva, penis, nipples and anywhere else you can think of!). This wearable luxury vibrator is designed to feel like a part of the body unlike other vibrators that can be uncomfortable to hold and play with. Worn between the fingers with or without a detachable tether, Fin’s vibrations feel different at each end of its body:

  1. One side offers pin-point stimulation, which is great for clitoral stimulation.
  2. The other side is soft and squishy.

Fin Finger Vibrator is a great sex toy for couples to experiment and have fun with.


We-Vibe Tango

The We-Vibe Tango is a premium high-quality bullet vibrator that can also be used anywhere you want vibration. Designed for precise external stimulation, the We-Vibe Tango is small yet very powerful. It delivers deep, rumbling vibrations right where you want them. This external vibrator is similar to a lipstick vibe with a tapered tip that delivers intense vibrations to the clitoris with pinpoint focus. The flat edge is perfect for all over massage.


We-Vibe Pivot

The We-Vibe Pivot is a vibrating penis ring that stretches to fit most penises. Not only does it constrict blood flow to the penis (to help him hold out longer and for stronger orgasms), the We-Vibe Pivot also provides vibration for your partner. Plus, it can be controlled by your smartphone thanks to the free We-Connect app. As an added bonus, it can be used as an external vibrator or used with a dildo to provide vibration.


Magic Wand Rechargeable

Not only is this massager powerful but it is also rechargeable. The Magic Wand Rechargeable Massager can be used during penetration for clitoral stimulation.

TIP: About 70% of women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm.

Wand massager attachments are available to stimulate the G-spot, to stimulate the G-spot and the clitoris at the same time and as a male masturbator for men.


Fun Factory Bootie

This luxury silicone butt plug is great for anal exploration. Although it is curved for prostate stimulation, it is unisex so both partners can experiment with anal play. With three sizes to choose from, the Fun Factory Bootie is a comfortable butt plug that fits perfectly between the cheeks!


Pulse 3 DUO

Pulse 3 DUO is a remote controlled vibrator and male masturbator that can be used during sex. This couples sex toy can be used hands-free allowing you to focus on each other and not the toy. It’s soft vibrating underside has vibrations for her. Those vibrations are independently adjustable with the remote control.

Pulse 3 DUO can be used flaccid or erect, during foreplay and even during shallow penetration in numerous positions.

  1. On Top position: Worn on the penis, the woman’s labia and clitoris feel the vibration of the underside of the toy, which is controlled by the remote. With the woman’s bodyweight holding the toy in place, the couple can enjoy hands-free foreplay.
  2. Missionary position: Worn on the penis, the woman’s labia and clitoris feel the vibration of the underside of the toy. With the man’s bodyweight holding the toy in place, the couple can enjoy hands-free foreplay.


Fun Factory Pulsators

Do you want to try a threesome but are afraid to invite another person into the bedroom? That’s no longer a concern thanks to the Fun Factory Pulsators. This thrusting sex toy mimics the back-and-forth movement of penetration. So you can enter your partner vaginally and use the Pulsator anally OR you can enter your partner anally and use the Pulsator vaginally.

Or, if a threesome is not your thing, you can use the hands-free Pulsator with a vibrator for an amazing orgasm!

Fleshlight Quickshot

Oral play? Handjob? You take your pick with the Quickshot from Fleshlight. Open on both sides, this luxury sex toy can be used during a blow job as well as during a hand job for extra stimulation and a little bit more fun to your foreplay.


Personal Lubricant

Simply put: lube makes sex better, and who doesn’t want that??


It makes things slicker and more enjoyable. Not only does it increase your pleasure, but personal lubricant decreases your risk of pain and infection. There are many different types of  personal lubricants depending on your needs:

  • Water-based
  • Oil-based
  • Silicone-based
  • Flavored
  • Cooling/Warming
  • Sensitive

TIP: Only use water based lubricant with silicone toys.

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ON Arousal Oil

On average, women need 10-40 minutes to get aroused. This can depend on stress, lack of sleep, medication, the time of her cycle, and many other reasons. ON Arousal Oil not only speeds up the arousal process but also kick starts the natural lubrication process. Made of all natural cinnamon oil, when 1-3 drops are applied to the clitoris, it brings blood flow to the clitoris and helps arousal. The best part is that it kicks in within 5 minutes!


Luz de la Riva Lulu Edible Massage Oil

There’s no better way to start sexual play than with a relaxing massage. Why not pour edible massage oil all over your partner and let your imagination do the rest! Luz de la Riva Lulu Edible Massage Oil does not have a nasty chemical aftertaste like most edible massage oils. Lulu is made with pure sweet almond oil, which is wonderful for the skin, and is mixed with organic flavor. In fact, Lulu is absolutely delicious! Formulated with natural pheromones, the simple ingredients makes Luz de la Riva Lulu Edible Massage Oil a healthy, natural body moisturizer.


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