12 Best Sex Toys for Couples


The 12 Best Sex Toys for Couples are toys and products they add fun to your sex life, and they let you explore what feels good and experiment with new types of sensation.

There’s a lot of sex toy myths out there. Many people feel that they will be replaced if they introduce sex toys into the bedroom. They also feel that something is wrong with them if they bring “those” products into the bedroom. Or, they don’t need those products because they don’t have any issues in the bedroom, so why would they need them? Another sex toy myth is that only “those” types of people use sex toys and adult products.


Let’s debunk each myth.

MYTH #1: I feel replaced when my partner brings a sex toy into the bedroom.

MYTH #2: Something is wrong with me or my partner if you use sex toys and adult products.

MYTH #3: My sex life is great! Why do I need adult toys and products?

Is it perfect? NO! Nothing is perfect.

So, then don’t you want to make it BETTER??

Do you know EVERYTHING there is to know about pleasure? Most people do not!

That’s the primary reason to use adult toys and products: they make sex and pleasure BETTER. They add more fun and variety to sexual play. They help you and your partner discover what feels good — and what does not. Some sex toys can help you explore new sensations that you might have never experienced before.

Who doesn’t want that??

MYTH #4: My partner and I are not wild, so we don’t need “those” types of products.

No matter what kind of sexual play you are into, everyone can use benefit from using sex toys and adult products.


Luxury sex toys and products are not as scary as you think. They are discreet, which means that they don’t look like a sex toy, and therefore, are not intimidating as they used to be.

Personal lubricants make sex and masturbation more enjoyable. Sexual stimulants help the arousal process, especially for women.

Tip: It takes women approximately 10-40 minutes to get aroused.

These products can only HELP you and your intimate moments…not hurt you!

MYTH #5: Only “those” types of people use sex toys.

And what types of people are these? People who enjoy PLEASURE? People who live HAPPIER and HEALTHIER LIVES? There is nothing wrong or shameful about using these products. They will bring you closer to your partner as well as provide more intimate moments and FUN!

Learn the health benefits of orgasms here.

So, here’s our picks for the 12 best sex toys for couples, whether you are beginners or advanced users:

We-Vibe 4 Plus

This luxury couples vibrator is worn by her during sex. It stimulates both the clitoris and G-spot while the penis is inside. The penis can also feel the vibration as well when using the We-Vibe 4 Plus! If you use your smartphone as the remote control, you can control this sex toy for couples from anywhere in the world plus design your own vibration patterns.


Minna Limon

Limon is a mini luxury vibrator that can be used in a number of ways. The tip is excellent for clitoral stimulation and the entire toy fits nicely over the vulva. The tip can also be used against your cheek for added vibration during oral sex. The Minna Limon can be used to stimulate the perineum, a.k.a. the “taint”, as well. The best benefit about the Limon is that you can make your own vibration patterns and record the ones you like best, which is a fun way for couples to play!


Je Joue Mio

The Mio is a vibrating penis ring that stretches to fit most penises. Not only does it constrict blood flow to the penis (to help him hold out longer and for stronger orgasms), the Je Joue Mio also provides vibration for your partner. As an added bonus, it can be used as an external vibrator or used with a dildo to provide vibration. je-joue-mio-luxury-vibrating-penis-cock-ring

Magic Wand Rechargeable

Not only is this massager powerful but it is also rechargeable. The Magic Wand Rechargeable Massager can be used during penetration for clitoral stimulation.

TIP: About 70% of women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm.

Wand massager attachments are available to stimulate the G-spot, to stimulate the G-spot and the clitoris at the same time and as a male masturbator for men.


Fun Factory Bootie

This luxury silicone butt plug is great for anal exploration. Although it is curved for prostate stimulation, it is unisex so both partners can experiment with anal play. With three sizes to choose from, the Fun Factory Bootie is a comfortable butt plug that fits perfectly between the cheeks!


PicoBong Remoji

There is no better way for couples to play together than with remote controlled toys. When your partner is controlling your sex toy, it adds a level of sexual play — tease and excitement — that you can not get with regular sex toys. The Surfer vibrating butt plug, Diver G-spot vibrator, Blowhole Masturbator Cup, and Lifeguard Vibrating Penis Ring is used with the free app.  Unlike other apps that mainly act as remote controls, Remoji makes sexual playtime a fun, easy-to-use interactive game!

Fleshlight Quickshot

Oral play? Hand job? You take your pick with the Quickshot from Fleshlight. Open on both sides, this luxury sex toy can be used during a blow job as well as during a hand job for extra stimulation and a little bit more fun to your foreplay.


Personal Lubricant

Simply put: lube makes sex better, and who doesn’t want that??


It makes things more slick and more enjoyable. Not only does it increase your pleasure, but personal lubricant decreases your risk of pain and infection. There are many different types of  personal lubricants depending on your needs:

  • Water-based
  • Oil-based
  • Silicone-based
  • Flavored
  • Cooling/Warming
  • Sensitive

TIP: Only use water based lubricant with silicone toys.

ON Arousal Oil

On average, women need 10-40 minutes to get aroused. This can depend on stress, lack of sleep, medication, the time of her cycle, and many other reasons. ON Arousal Oil not only speeds up the arousal process but also kick starts the natural lubrication process. Made of all natural cinnamon oil, when 1-3 drops are applied to the clitoris, it brings blood flow to the clitoris and helps arousal. The best part is that it kicks in within 5 minutes!


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