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Does Penis Size Matter?

Does Penis Size Matter?

All men obsess about their penis and prefer to have a big penis. This creates a ton of insecurity for men who have a smaller penis. According to a recent study from the Kinsey Institute at Indiana University, 20% of men in the U.S. are dissatisfied with the size of their genitals.

What Is The Average Penis Size?

With so many unhappy men, you have to wonder, what is the average penis size? Average penis size when erect is 5.4″, according to Dr. Harry Fisch, M.D. Meanwhile, the average flaccid penis is 3.5″. (Is that bigger or smaller than you expected?)

Regardless of where you fall on the penis size scale, a big penis does not make you more manly or a better lover.

Does Penis Size Matter To Women?

Not really.

Most women notice if it’s too big (“Ouch – that hurts!”) or too small (“Is it in?”), but overall, women don’t care about size.

In a British study, 85% of women reported they were happy with their partner’s penis size. Meanwhile, a 2012 study of more than 300 U.S. women found that 60% said penis size made no difference to them. (We won’t deny that some women do enjoy the extra girth or angle of a penis.)

On the other hand, penis size matters for those women who frequently experience vaginal orgasms. According to the Journal of Sexual Medicine, a new study finds that women who have frequent vaginal orgasms can orgasm more easily with men with larger penises. (By the way, a girthier penis is also associated with more sensation at the entrance of the vagina.)

If You Have A Small Penis, What Do You Do?

Although most heterosexual women enjoy the physical sensation and/or emotional closeness of penetration, having a big penis is not the only way to satisfy her. Size is only one small part in the overall equation for sexual satisfaction.

An important component of sexual satisfaction for a woman is a psychological connection, which includes attraction, love and watching you become aroused by the mere sight of her. She finds it hot when she sees that you are physically turned on by her.

If you know that she’s into you, then what? The rest is up to you! You have to know how to use your penis and how to pleasure her. No matter the size of your penis, you MUST focus on foreplay and stimulate the clitoris to help her to orgasm.

After all, for most women, vaginal sensation is secondary to the stimulation of the clitoris. For more than 70% of women, the clitoris is the key to the female orgasm. These women get the majority of their sexual pleasure from the external stimulation of the clitoris, and the penis is not a necessary part of external clitoral stimulation. Oral, manual touch or luxury vibrators are excellent ways to stimulate the clitoris.

Sex Positions For Men With A Small Penis

Ok – despite everything above, you still feel insecure about the size of your penis. If that’s the case, then you need to learn how to use your penis in the best way possible. Experiment with positions that allow for deep penetration and the ability for either of you to stimulate her clitoris manually or with a luxury vibrator during penetration. (Remember: it’s not just about you — it’s also about her.)

Here are our suggestions for the best sex positions for a small penis:


When performed at the correct angle, doggy style is an excellent position for a small penis to feel larger and for you to feel in control. Plus it also stimulates her G-spot.

She should bend forward onto her elbows/forearms (or lower her chest to the bed), while having her butt up in the air. To help create the most effective angle, her thighs should be close together to shorten the vaginal canal and make penetration deeper.

If she has strong pelvic floor muscles (that’s the benefit of kegel exercises!), she can grip you tightly, which helps to heighten sensation for both of you.

The Antelope

Similar to doggy style, both of you should kneel on the floor leaning over your couch or table. Open her legs from behind and enter.

The Hound

Yet another variant of doggy style, she should lower herself onto her forearms and push back as you enter from behind.

The Snake

She should lie flat on her belly with her legs closed and a pillow beneath her hips until her butt sticks up. Keeping your knees bent, straddle her hips while maintaining an upright position and place your genitals just behind her bottom. Gently spread her thighs (or even hold her thighs together) just enough to allow penetration and slide your way in.

The Rabbit Ears

She should lay on her back, spread her thighs and draw her legs up until her knees are close to her ears with a pillow under her butt. When you penetrate her, it will feel as though you’re filling her vagina completely.

Keep in mind that it can be hard for a woman to hold her legs in that position for extended periods of time. So, help her by placing your arm in the crook of her knee.

The V-formation

Again, she should lay on her back. While between her thighs, enter her as you normally would from a kneeling position. Then, raise her legs and grasp each one around the ankle spreading them apart until forming a “V.” This will create an angle that puts her G-spot directly in the path of your penis.

Girl On Top

If she likes having control and prefers being on top, she should move back and forth or in circles, rather than moving up and down your shaft. Not only will it prevent you from slipping out, but it will also enhance her sensation by rubbing her clitoris against your pelvic bone.

Every Small Penis Can Have A Decent Sex Life

Men with a smaller penis should not be discouraged from having a fulfilling sex life. There are definitely things that you can do to in the bedroom that will make you feel less insecure.

Do you have any other suggestions?


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