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How To Choose The Best Sex Toy For Her

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Minna Limon Vibrator – a great beginner vibrator

No matter whether it’s the holidays or not, women appreciate acknowledgement, attention, and respect from their partner. There’s no better way to show her how much you appreciate her with mind-blowing orgasms. After all, orgasms are healthy, relieve stress and will make her feel great about herself, which can only help your relationship.

Luxury vibrators are an excellent place to start and make great sexy holiday gifts for your wife or girlfriend. However, with so many products out there, where do you start?  How do you choose the best sex toy for her?

Clitoral Vibrators

Clitoral vibrators are excellent for beginners or women who have never used a vibrator before. This type of vibrator stimulates the clitoris, which approximately 70% women need to achieve orgasm.

For beginners, choose a toy that is not intimidating and easy to use. The toy should also be comfortable to hold. Some women also like stimulation of the labia area. So be sure to choose a vibrator that covers the entire area. We recommend the Laid C1 Vibrator or Minna Limon Vibrator. If she is ready, you could also try using a clitoral vibrator during penetrative sex so everyone achieves pleasure.

G-spot Vibrators

Whether you have found the G-spot or not, it’s fun to try! Just to review, the G-spot is located between about 2 to 3 inches on the front of the vaginal wall. (Insert a finger into the vagina and curve it towards the belly button. It’s easier to find the G-spot when she is aroused.) Keep in mind that every woman’s body is slightly different and some women have more of a cluster of nerve endings and erectile tissue than others. G-spot vibrators have a gentle curve that hit the G-spot. Fun Factory Delight Vibrator and LELO Gigi 2 Vibrator were both designed to hit this spot perfectly.  However, if you think she would prefer something slightly more advanced, then try one of the Fun Factory Pulsators. A pulsator does not vibrate on the G-spot. Rather it’s back and forth motion allows for a slower build up to orgasm.

Rabbit Vibrators

Rabbit vibrators stimulate both the clitoris and the G-spot at the same time. Luxury rabbit vibrators have at least 2 motors (1 in the external part for the clitoris and 1 in the internal part for the G-spot) for maximum stimulation. LELO Ina 2 Vibrator has more of a classic rabbit shape and it’s internal arm is on the larger side, while the Leaf Vitality+ Vibrator has a discreet design and is a good rabbit vibrator for beginners.

Couples Vibrators

Something else to consider is a couples vibrator that is worn by her during sex. The top part of the vibrator stimulates her clitoris and the bottom part stimulates her G-spot. The penis is meant to be inside the vagina with the toy, and both partners will feel the vibration. (Yes – the penis can fit along with the toy inside the vagina!) Sharing this experience together brings couples closer and make using a vibrator less intimidating because you are doing it together. Of course, she can also use this luxury vibrator for solo play. We recommend the remote controlled We-Vibe 4 Vibrator, which can help tease her and add to the pleasure!

Choosing the best sex toy for her does not have to be hard. It should appeal to the senses: beautiful and unintimidating; quiet; and soft. When introducing adult sex toys, take it slow, communicate and find a toy that is sensually pleasing and arousing and will enhance your experience of pleasure.

As always, any of the My Secret Luxury Concierges are happy to help you if you have further questions.

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