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8 Best Sex Toys for Menopausal Women

8 Best Sex Toys for Menopausal Women

Menopause is a nasty word for many women. It changes your body, your mind and your sex drive. The change in your hormones from menopause effects how your body reacts sexually. You may not be as easily aroused as you once were and you may be less sensitive to touching or stroking. Due to the lower levels of estrogen, there can be less blood supply to the ... Read More »

Valentine’s Day Sex and Pleasure Statistics


Are you looking forward to Valentine’s Day sex? You are not alone! As you know, Valentine’s Day is about love, romance and finding pleasure with your partner! Did you know twice as many people are doing some sort of sexual play on Valentine’s Day – and for 30% longer!? The free We-Connect™ by We-Vibe sees their number of uses more than double, and the average session ... Read More »

Best New Sex Toys of 2016


See the Best New Sex Toys of 2017 here. Welcome to 2016! Exciting things are happen in sex tech and sex toys in 2016. From touchable videos that teach you about pleasure to products that can be powered by the beating of a heart (whether it’s your own or your partners’) to a reading app and sex toy synchronized via Bluetooth, innovation is ... Read More »

3 Tips to Keep the Spark Alive During the Holidays

3 tips to keep the spark alive during the holidays

As the temperature drops and the days get shorter, our lives become busier. It doesn’t help that each year, the holiday stuff shows up in stores earlier, reminding us of the chaos to come. Between family, travel, and gift buying, the holidays have the perfect combination of stress factors to strain your sex life and relationship. Many of us take things ... Read More »

Holiday Gift Guide 2015

Holiday Gift Guide 2015

My Secret Luxury’s 2015 Holiday Gift Guide  featuring high quality luxury sex toys & accessories Eva by Dame – If you want a hands-free couples vibrator but don’t want a vibrator that gets in the way during sex, then you should try the Eva. Thanks to its wings, it fits securely into the labia majora so that it vibrates on the clitoris.   Fun Factory Stronic ... Read More »

4 Reasons to Touch and Play with Breasts


  Breasts are wonderful but sometimes overlooked sources of pleasure. Some people orgasm from breast stimulation alone. For others, the breasts are just kind of there and no pleasure comes from playing with them.  (Keep in mind: You are NORMAL either way!) These differences in how people respond to touching and playing with their breasts (or having their breasts played ... Read More »

A Sex Educator’s Guide to Prostate Play

A Sex Educators Guide to Prostate Play

September is both Prostate Health and Prostate Cancer Awareness Month. The prostate has gotten lots of attention in the last decade or so and is slowly being recognized as a pleasure center. At My Secret Luxury, we think there’s no better way to celebrate than with a little exploration and massage! Of course, a little Prostate 101 doesn’t hurt either! Here’s a ... Read More »

How To Talk About Sex With Your Partner

How to talk about sex with your partner

Let’s face it — talking about sex can be awkward. Not only are you uncomfortable to talk to your friends about this subject, but it can be harder to talk about sex with your partner! You worry what they’ll think. Will they laugh? Be disgusted? How do you even bring it up?! How do you talk about sex with your ... Read More »

More Tips for Traveling with Sex Toys

Tips for Traveling with Sex Toys

It’s peak travel season and that means you and your partner probably have a trip planned. Whether you’re going across the city or across the world, bringing sex toys with you helps ensure you have great sex while away. Traveling with sex toys presents some unique challenges — specifically how to pack them and what to do if your bag ... Read More »

The Benefits of Kegel for Men and Kegel Exercises

The Benefits of Kegel Exercises for Men

Most of the time when you hear the word “Kegels” they are in reference to childbirth.  However, Kegel exercises are not just for women! Anyone can benefit from doing their Kegels regularly — even men. Kegels for men help in so many ways: from erections to incontinence. What are Kegels for men? Quite simply, Kegels are exercises that strengthen your pubococcygeus (PC) ... Read More »

Is Masturbation Good For Your Health?


Polishing the pearl. Choking the monkey. Paddling the pink canoe. Beating the meat. Is masturbation good for you?? YES! May is National Masturbation Month! Yet, it’s funny the lengths we go to avoid saying the word “masturbation” when it’s something that most adults have tried at least once. This silence is also quite disheartening as masturbation, or whatever phrase you feel ... Read More »

How to Deal with Different Sex Drives in a Relationship

How to Deal with Different Sex Drives

HELP! I have a different sex drive than my partner. What do I do? Sound familiar? You are not alone. One of the most common questions I receive as a coach for women who aren’t sexually satisfied in their relationships is how to deal with different sex drives. One person wants sex more than the other and its causing problems. The ... Read More »

3 Ways to Add More Pleasure to Your Life


Written by Kait Scalisi, MPH, Director of Education and Training, My Secret Luxury During the trainings I lead with healthcare providers and public health professionals, I start and end my sessions with one question: “Is pleasure a part of health?” Throughout the training, I repeat the question while exploring it from a health perspective. As you probably aren’t surprised to ... Read More »

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