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BDSM 101: How to Improve Your Sex Life With ‘50 Shades of Grey’


50 Shades of Grey made BDSM mainstream and suddenly, everyone is talking about it: your best friends, co-workers, and maybe even some open family members. What the book didn’t do is teach you the basics of BDSM and how to incorporate it into the bedroom.  What is BDSM? The acronym stands for bondage and discipline, domination and submission, and sadism ... Read More »

Best New Sex Toys of 2015


See the Best New Sex Toys of 2016 here. Welcome to 2015! Daily Dot said that 2014 was the year that sex tech went high tech. Can it get any better than that? We think so! What will 2015 bring for adult sex toys? Here’s our list of the best new sex toys for 2015: updated (October 1, 2015) See the best ... Read More »

Holiday Gift Guide for Women and Men


This holiday season, give the gift of pleasure. Sexy gifts of high quality adult toys and sex accessories make excellent gifts. They are the gifts that KEEP ON GIVING! My Secret Luxury’s Holiday Gift Guide for Women and Men Sexy Gifts for Women: Doxy Massager – Move over Hitachi Magic Wand. The Doxy is in town! This classic handheld electric massager gives ... Read More »

The Difference Between Adult Novelties and Sex Toys


Written by Kait Scalisi, MPH, Director of Education and Training, My Secret Luxury and My Secret Soiree You know adult sex toys can help keep your relationship fun and exciting. But not all toys are made equally. Is there a difference between adult novelties and sex toys? Yes . . .  and no! First and foremost, those toys that have “For ... Read More »

Got Sex Questions? How To Get Answers

Got Sex Questions-We Have Answers

Written by Kait Scalisi MPH, Director of Education and Training, My Secret Luxury and My Secret Soiree Over the last five years leading adult sex toy parties and doing sexuality consultations, I’ve learned that most everyone has questions about sex. The questions vary a lot in terms of breadth and depth, but everyone, myself included, has them. Maybe you’ve been in ... Read More »

Never Had An Orgasm? The Afterglow Will Help!


Unfortunately, so many women have never had an orgasm. That could be due to one or more reasons: They have experienced sexual trauma They don’t deserve pleasure Their partner doesn’t value their pleasure It’s time that women take control of their own pleasure and achieve that orgasm that they deserve! Dr. Ralph Zimmer, a Flordia urogynecologist, who treats overactive bladder disease, stumbled upon away ... Read More »

How Do Kegel Exercises Enhance Pleasure and Sex?


  Written by Kait Scalisi MPH, Director of Education and Training, My Secret Luxury and My Secret Soiree If you are an adult in the post-Fifty Shades of Grey era, you understand when I say, “those silver balls.” You may even know their technical name (it’s Ben Wa balls FYI) and that they help you do your Kegel exercises.  But do ... Read More »

The Science of Orgasms


Most  people would agree that orgasms are pretty awesome. They feel amazing and provide a whole plethora of benefits. But have you ever wondered what exactly goes on during an orgasm? Let’s break it down. After all, knowledge is power and in this case “power” comes in the form of experiencing more pleasure. Cheers to that! What is an orgasm? ... Read More »

High Quality Adult Sex Toys of Fifty Shades of Grey


Fifty Shades of Grey is on everyone’s mind for one reason or another. Love or hate E.L. James’ sexy series, the movie will be out February 2015. After reading the book(s), many women wanted to recreate the same sexual experience and pleasure (!) that Ana had. Shortly after the phenomenon, Fifty Shades of Grey inspired many of their own branded ... Read More »

Top 5 LELO Vibrators


  LELO toys are synonymous with luxury and high quality. Launched in 2003, LELO AB is the Swedish company who was one of the first manufacturers to transform the look, feel & function of how adult toys are perceived. With that in mind, LELO designs some of the best vibrators in the market today. Discreet, well made and powerful, LELO vibrators and ... Read More »

What is Electro-Sex? Erotic electrostimulation can be fun!


Electricity and sex . . . .  Wouldn’t that hurt or be dangerous? Do they go together? Actually they do. Electro-What? Electrical impulses are constantly running through our body. The body those electrical impulses all the time to exchange information between nerve endings and the brain. Those electrical impulses help us to then feel touch and more importantly . . . ... Read More »

18 Health Benefits of Orgasms


Mae West was ahead of her time when she said, “An orgasm a day keeps the doctor away.” An orgasm isn’t just pleasurable — it also makes you healthier and improves the overall quality of your life. According to sex educator Charlie Glickman, “Pleasure supports well-being.” Another way to think about it as sexologist Jaiya suggests, “Orgasms equal long life.” Knowing that, you should ... Read More »

The Secrets to Better, Stronger Orgasms For Women


So many women don’t realize that pleasure (and orgasms) is their birthright. One part of a woman’s body, the clitoris, has no other job besides giving her pleasure. Some women are very lucky — they orgasm very easily. Other women have a very hard time achieving an orgasm. Since My Secret Luxury is all about your pursuit of pleasure, we thought it ... Read More »

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