Top 14 Best Plus Size Sex Toys for Bigger Bodies
Have you ever been frustrated because it’s been hard to get into a certain sexual position or use a sex toy because of your weight? If so, you are not alone.
Sex is a beautiful and necessary part of life. Sex and pleasure are healthy. It is a bonding experience for yourself and your partner. Sex also encourages consciousness in your body. Therefore, everyone should have access to great sex and pleasure.
Sex toys are just another way of giving you different sensations of pleasure. Sex and sex toys should be enjoyed by everyone no matter your gender, sexuality or size. As sex toys become more popular, there are plus size sex toys for people of all shapes and sizes.
As we always remind people, bodies are different and everyone like different things. There are so many different body types and sizes. Unfortunately, your body size can affect your sexual needs, as well as your sex toy design preferences and needs.
Some of the best plus size sex toys for bigger bodies are toys that allow you to comfortably reach any part of your body. Sex accessories also help you keep sex toys in place and make positions for sexual play more comfortable.
What makes a person sexy?
The number one quality that makes a person sexy is confidence. Body size has nothing to do with why a person is sexy. Other qualities include but are not limited to:
Just like everyone is different, so is the way people exude confidence.
It is also important to note that sexual competence can create confidence. If you are a superstar in the bedroom, you will feel better about your body.
Why love your body?
Loving your body and self-love is very important. Self-love is something most of us — no matter what size we are — need to work on every day.
Self-love includes but is not limited to:
Some of us self-love more than others, and loving yourself (and your body) means different things to different people. No one can tell you what self-love means for you. You have to discover what it means to yourself. There is no right or wrong way to self-love so long as you do it.
For plus size people, accepting and loving your body is very important.
To enjoy sexual play, you need to be aroused. Essentially, there have to be more turn-ons than turn-offs. Hating your body or feeling uncomfortable in your body is one turn-off that can ruin many turn-ons.
When you feel good about your body, you will have better sex.
Studies have shown that the more comfortable you are with your body, the more sexually satisfied you and your partner will be. See the study here.
Hating your body and feeling uncomfortable is a distraction. This distraction creates stress. Therefore, you are stressed and your mind is focused on the opposite feeling that will make you aroused.
How can you improve your self-love?
“To improve the relationship with your body . . . get naked,” says Kait Scalisi, My Secret Luxury’s Director of Education and Training. As we get older, we develop shame about our bodies. If you do this regularly…and alone, says Kait, you will get more comfortable with yourself.
You can also masturbate more.
Masturbation — with or without plus size sex toys — leads to a better understanding of your body and how you like pleasure. Once you understand what you like and don’t like or what your body needs, sexual play — whether alone or with a partner — will be better.
Why do plus size people have trouble using sex toys?
Many overweight and plus size people have trouble accessing their clitoris because it is not as very exposed. They must spread their outer (and sometimes poofy) labia and their clitoral hood to get to their clitoris. For some, they might also need to part their outer labia for penetration or for internal sex toys. Having a clitoris that’s hidden makes immediate pleasure and easy access harder.
Many overweight people have shorter arms and rounder bodies. So, reaching your genitals can be hard. Therefore, you need longer sex toys. Sex toys that are easy to hold, stay in place, or bend with your body can also be helpful.
Many plus size people have different needs when it comes to the sex toys they use. They may need an easy to hold handle or a toy that bends to get to the right spot. Plus size people with limited stamina and need help maintaining sexual positions. Positional aides help make sex more comfortable, allowing you to extend your sexual playtime.
1. Sola Sync Wand Massager
This luxury wand massager is a longer toy that allows for extended reach to the genital area, which is excellent for bigger bodies. Sola Sync is a luxury vibrator that has powerful rumbly vibrations and a soft flexible head. The head is smaller than other heads of wands massagers, which makes it easier to reach hard-to-reach areas of your body. The extra long handle and curved design reach the clitoris and perineum, as well all those hard to get to areas on the neck, back, and shoulders.
Sync also comes with a wireless remote that allows you to select up to 10 different massage speeds or patterns with ease. This allows you to use the entire handle without worrying about finding the controls.
2. Fin by Dame Finger Vibrator
Fin by Dame is a discreet and versatile finger vibrator that can be used anywhere for external stimulation. This wearable luxury vibrator is worn between the fingers (with or without a detachable tether) and is easy to hold.
Fin’s vibrations feel different at each end of its body:
- One side offers pinpoint stimulation, which is great for clitoral stimulation.
- The other side is soft and squishy.
3. Fun Factory Big Boss Vibrator
Instead of using a mini bullet vibrator, people with plus size bodies need a larger toy that will be easy to use and hold. Although Fun Factory Big Boss is a technically G-spot luxury vibrator (because its curve stimulates the G-spot), you can use the tip externally. Plus, it’s comfortable ergonomic loop handle makes this luxury sex toy very easy to use.
4. Doxy Wand Electric Massager
If you require a lot of power, then an electric wand massager is for you. The Doxy Wand Massager is most powerful electric wand massager. This luxury sex toy can be used alone or between two partners. You can also add it to a Liberator sex toy mount pillow for more comfort and ease of use.
5. MysteryVibe Crescendo
This sex toy bends in 6 different places making it ideal for plus size people who need to maneuver their sex toy so that it hits the right spot. Plus, it has 6 powerful motors and is remote controlled by your smartphone. Because of its unique bendable design, you can use the MysteryVibe Crescendo in so many different ways.
6. Fun Factory Pulsator
Fun Factory Pulsators do not vibrate. Pulsating luxury sex toys mimic the back and forth movement of penetration. Some people compare using a pulsator to being penetrated another person. Thrusting sex toys are also hands-free, which makes it easier for plus size people to use.
7. Njoy Pure Wand
The Njoy Pure Wand is an amazing toy for so many different types of users. This double ended dildo is firm enough for insertion, but long enough to provide good grip. Due to the Pure Wand’s unique design, it can also handle the hard-to-reach angle. Made of 100% medical grade stainless steel, it can be warmed in a bowl of hot water or cooled in the freezer for different sensations.
8. Fun Factory Share Double Dildo
Strapless strap-on dildos can be used in many different ways. For plus size people and people with bigger bodies, the smaller side of this double dildo makes a great handle. These sex toys also feature extended shafts, which make it easier to use if you are overweight. They can be used during solo or partner play where the shorter end is inserted into the vagina and the other end goes inside into your partner either anally or vaginally.
If you wanted the added sensation of vibration, you can try the Fun Factory Share Vibe.
9. Fun Factory New Wave Dildo
Made with two insertable ends, the Fun Factory New Wave Silicone is a premium silicone sex toy. This double dildo has one end that is fuller, while the other end is rippled. Both ends meet in the middle with a clitoral stimulator. Easy to hold and use, this is a perfect luxury dildo and plus size sex toy for larger bodies.
10. Fun Factory Magnum Suction Cup Dildo
The Fun Factory Magnum Suction Cup Dildo is a luxury silicone sex toy and dildo that can be mounted on a smooth surface while still being strap-on harness compatible. Easy to insert and wear, Magnum is flexible yet firm. This luxury dildo is an excellent plus size sex toy when mounted because it’s handsfree.
11. Spareparts Hardwear Joque Strap-on Harness
Since a large portion of the population is overweight and plus size, it’s amazing when sex toy manufacturers make plus size sex toys for larger bodies. Spareparts Hardwear makes a beautiful strap-on harness in a variety of sizes that fits waists up to 65″. Spareparts Hardwear Joque Strap-on Harness is a traditional jockey style strap-on harness. Spareparts Hardwear also makes a comfortable panty-style strap-on dildo harness, the Tomboi. This strap-on harness fits waists up to 60″ or size 5x. Finally, if you have a penis, you could try the Spareparts Hardwear Deuce Strap-on Dildo Harness, which fits waists up to 50″.
12. Liberator Sex Toy Pillow
People who are overweight need positioning pillows to help them better enjoy sexual play. Liberator Sex Pillows, such as the Liberator Wedge, were designed for comfortable and supportive sex. They are washable, moisture resistant, and discreet. Liberator also makes sex toy mount pillows. These specially designed pillows allow toys to be handsfree for solo or couples play. Our favorite is Liberator Tula Toy Mount Pillow.
13. Sportsheets I Like It Doggie Style Strap Plus Size
Everyone should have this sex strap in their sex toy toolbox! It gives you better leverage, gives you a secure place to hold, and it allows for deeper penetration. Also, this strap compresses the vaginal canal and creates a “tighter” sensation. I Like It Doggie Style Strap Plus Size has a longer and wider pad making it an excellent plus size sex toy and accessory.
14. Labia Spreader
A labia spreader helps you get easier access to the clitoris if you have a large outer labia. This plus size sex toy accessory makes it easier to masturbate, have vaginal penetration, and solves hand fatigue during oral sex.
To use, bend the labia spreader in half. Add water-based lubricant to the middle and slip inside the vagina. The bump in the middle helps stimulate the G-spot, while the flexible ends spread the labia and expose the clitoris. The tips flex back and are fully adjustable, making it perfect and comfortable for all shapes and sizes.
Covered in body-safe silicone, a metal core helps the spreader keep its shape while staying strong.
BONUS: Big Big Love
Big Big Love by Hanne Black is an excellent resource for plus size sex and relationships. Covering everything from dating to sex toys to getting on top, this guide also features tips on making peace with your size and taking your clothes off, coping with weight-related prejudice, and creating a happy and satisfying sex life.