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Why Every Man Needs a Male Sex Toy


Not only does every woman need to experience pleasure with an adult toy but every man needs a male sex toy too. If you are a woman, it’s acceptable to use a vibrator because that’s the best way for a woman to orgasm. However, for men, there is a stigma with purchasing male sex toys. Why? Many men feel that they are not “real men” if they buy a sex toy or they think, “Why would I need a sex toy if I can get laid?”

Although a man might not be able to have real sex every night of the week, that doesn’t mean that he is any less of a man. Additionally, you are no less of a man if you own a sex toy. In fact, you are a smarter man!

Here’s why every man should buy a male sex toy:

Everyone Needs Variety

Variety is the spice of life, right? If you are single, you could potentially have a different partner every night! (Please remember to be safe and use condoms!) If you are in a committed relationship, you will probably have only one partner (unless you like to swing). So, sex toys can spice things up in the bedroom and add a dose of excitement and variety.

There are lots of different options to choose from that can be used alone or with a partner: a male vibrator or masturbator, a prostate massager, cock ring or an anal sex toy.

Practice, Practice, and More Practice

Remember what your coach, teacher, or mom used to say, “Practice makes perfect!” It’s so true. Good lovers not only know what works for their partner but also understands what works for themselves. Masturbating is an excellent way to learn how to last longer and understand what turns you on. Therefore, there’s no shame in it. Plus, it’s a great way to get the poison out!

Toys make masturbating more fun and interesting. They are a fun way to explore your sexuality making sex even better.

Sex Toys Can Stimulante You Differently Than Sex

With sex toys, you are not limited by position or your partner getting tired (and hopefully, not bored!). Sex toys for men also have ridges and bumps that you would never find in real life. This offers a different kind of pleasurable experience.


Let’s not forget that an adult toy is not a substitute for the real thing with an real live person. It’s just an object that offers pleasure. It doesn’t say, “I love you” or takes care of you when you are sick. Male sex toys are just another component to a fun sex life! There’s nothing to be scared of . . . unless you run out of batteries or need to recharge it!

By the way, here’s a list of My Secret Luxury’s favorite male sex toys:

Fun Factory Cobra Libre Masturbator – Hands-free, waterproof and rechargeable. Need we say more?

Aneros Vice Prostate Massager – Aneros understands the prostate better than anyone. Use this and you’ll have the best orgasm of your life!

Je Joue Mio Cock Ring – A powerful vibrating ring that is discreet and rechargeable.

Crystal Delights Glass Anal Plug – Simple and thanks to the glass, it’s excellent for hot or cold temperature play.

Fun Factory Bendy Anal Beads – Remove this one bead at a time and see what a difference it makes to your orgasm!

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